To say that s* x is one of the greatest problems in the world, is an understatement, to say that se x is a very essential part of human existence cannot be over emphasized. For ages, man has been troubled with the issue of s* x, and one very crucial problem remains how to last longer in bed with one’s partner. There is a secret to making s* x last longer that only few people know of.
This secret lies in a phase during s* x that is often neglected by many; it’s the phase right after s* x. Below are three key secrets that everyone needs to know about the after love phase of s* xual intercourse. It is essential to note that more times needs to be spent in this phase.
This is one of the most powerful lessons we can share about pleasure. Take orgasm out of your s* xual experience. Make it less of a focus and instead, swim towards your edge. Build the fire of pleasure. Ride the waves of sensation, of feeling, of emotion for as long as you like or as long as you can. Get close to the peak, but not so close that you cannot step back, Then simply be.
2. Stay connected
Extend your after-love by consciously connecting with your partner. Remain present after pleasure, whether you experience orgasm or not. Breathe together, and look into each other’s eyes. The deeper you breathe, the more everything will slow down and the more present you will be.
3. Listen to your body
Allow your body to follow in the direction of the energy.
After some s* xual experiences, we may feel energized. Let that flow through you in the form of dance and sound. Let it come from within. If you are feeling slow and soft, let your body express that. The movements and sounds you make will keep the energy alive in your body.