Things men do that make women feel insecure: As a guy, if you believe you’re doing everything right
in the relationship, and still find that your girl feels insecure in the relationship, you’re probably doing one or more of these things.
1. When you take forever to reply. She’s not asking
you to reply a minute after she sends a text message.
However, do value her by checking your phone
throughout the day, especially when you’re out
drinking and it’s already midnight. If you value your
girl, you won’t keep her waiting.
A simple text is enough for her to know that you’re
still thinking of her, even if you’re having fun with the
guys. Any confident woman would feel insecure if her
man never bothers to send her a reply. However, if
she’s texting every five minutes even if she knows
you’re busy, that’s a different story.
2. When you hang out with your female best
friend . Every girl, no matter how cool she appears to
be, gets a bit jealous when you’re with another girl.
Yep, even if she’s just your best friend, and even if
she’s not so attractive. That’s just human nature. So
the next time you hang out with your best friend,
make sure to tag your girlfriend along so they can get
to know each other better. This will hopefully give her
the assurance that she’s really just a friend and
2. When you talk endlessly about a girl. Unless
you’re talking about your mom or sister, your
girlfriend will get jealous and a bit suspicious if you
keep talking about a girl. This jealousy will get further
aggravated if you’ve not been giving her enough
Sure, you’re innocent and there’s nothing more to it,
but this could make your girl a bit insecure. The
solution? If you keep talking about a girl from work,
make sure you’re giving your girlfriend more
attention. To erase her suspicion, set a date to
introduce them to each other.
3. When you don’t introduce her to friends.
4. When you talk with your ex. Let’s just say you’re
best friends with your ex and you really don’t want to
lose her. But let’s not forget that you had sex with
your ex a lot of times in the past. The fact that you’ve
had sexual chemistry and history is enough of a
reason for your girl to get insecure. How can she
beat your ex?
She’s been with you much longer than the two of you
have, and she’s your “best friend.” Good luck with
that. The only woman who can tolerate your
friendship with your ex is someone who doesn’t give
a damn. Just make sure you won’t get jealous if she
gets very close with her ex, too.
5. When you talk about your ex. Why do you have
to talk about your ex? She shouldn’t be a part of the
world that you create together, right? This will only
make your girlfriend feel a bit uncomfortable and
insecure about herself. But if you really want to talk
about her or it can’t be helped, simply assure her that
you have no feelings for her whatsoever. By the end
of your conversation, your girlfriend should feel that
she’s the only one you want now.
6. When you keep her a secret. Do you hide her
from your family? Is she your secret love? That’s fine
if you’ve just been together for a few months, but if
you’ve been together for more than a year yet you’re
still hiding her from your friends, don’t be surprised
if she gets insecure. Why do you keep her a secret? If
you love someone, you’re willing to shout their name
until all the world knows you’re together. It doesn’t
take much. Simply uploading a photo of you together
on Facebook is a big thing for your girl. If social
media is not your thing, then at least embrace her in
7. When you keep secrets from her. Women are
very intuitive. They can tell if you’re keeping secrets
from them. If you do this too often to your girl, she’ll
start to feel like you’re excluding her from your life.
Maybe it’s fine if you’re keeping secrets from her just
to protect her, but if you’re keeping secrets from her
because you’re scared she’d judge you or you’re
scared she’d tell her friends, then you