1. Masturb’ation doesn’t have the health benefits that se x does.
It appears that not all Og’asms are created equally, because study after study shows that intercourse has all sorts of benefits for men for your blood pressure, heart and prostate health, pain, and more. You’d think that masturb’ation would, too. But it doesn’t.
Why would it make a difference whether you ej’aculate during s’ex or on your own? No one’s sure. But your body seems to respond differently. Even the makeup of s’emen is different if you masturb’ation instead of having s’ex.
Still, does it really matter? Have you honestly been masturb’ating all these years only because you wanted to boost your prostate health? Didn’t think so.
2. Masturb’ation is not risk-free.
Sure, it’s low-risk. It’s the safest form of s’ex possible. No one ever caught an STD from himself or made himself pregnant. But like other low-risk activities (chewing, walking), it still has some risks.
Frequent or rough masturb’ation can cause minor skin irritation. Forcefully bending an erect pen’is can rupture the chambers that fill with blood, a rare but gruesome condition called pen’ile fracture.
Afterward, the pen’is looks like an eggplant, It’s purple and swollen.” Most men need surgery to repair it.
3.There’s no “normal” amount of masturb’ation.
Guys can get hung up on whether they masturb’ate too much. But it’s not how many times you masturb’ate in a week (or day) that really matters. It’s how it fits into your life.
If you masturb’ate many times a day and have a healthy, satisfying life, good for you. But if you masturb’ate many times a day and you’re missing work or giving up on s’ex with your partner because of it, consider seeing a s’ex therapist.
Even then, there’s nothing specific about masturb’ation that’s the problem. Compulsive masturb’ation is like any behavior that disrupts your life, whether it’s compulsively playing poker or buying Beanie Babies on eBay.
4. Masturb’ating doesn’t reflect on your relationship.
The most damaging myth about male masturb’ation is that it’s a sign something is wrong in your relationship.
The fact is that most guys masturba’te. They masturb’ate if they’re single, in a bad relationship, or in a great relationship. It’s just something they do that has nothing to do with their partners.
Masturbation isn’t only about s’ex. For many, it’s a routine way of relieving stress, clearing your head before work, or going to sleep.
5. Masturb’ation is almost certainly good for your s’ex life.
Masturb’ation can help your s’ex life, since it’s how guys learn what they like during s’ex. “I think women would be more satisfied s’exually in a relationships if they masturb’ated as much as men do. But the truth is ,It got a whole lot of negative effect in your life.